Does your writing often get left until last?

I know how easy this is: to want to tackle all the things that "should" be done first, like laundry or emails or other commitments.

And, of course, some things truly do need to take priority (like feeding your kids, going to work, and so on) ... but your writing doesn't need to wait until everything is done. Because if you always leave your writing to last, chances are, you'll be out of time, energy, or both.

Here are a few things you can try that might be helpful in giving writing a little more importance in your life.

#1: Give Yourself Permission to Write

It can be difficult to allow yourself to write, particularly if you're fairly early on in your writing life. Maybe you're worried that you're wasting time: you'll never make it as a writer. Or you feel like you've left it too late already. Or you're just not good enough.

Frankly, even if all of that was true – even if you were doomed to never make a penny from your writing, even if you were objectively awful – that's no reason not to write!

My baking, while perfectly edible, isn't about to win any prizes or launch me into an alternative career. But I still enjoy baking with my kids.

It's okay to write simply because you enjoy writing and feel better for having done it. That's enough of a reason.

Of course, there's a good chance that writing will mean even more to you than that (and potentially become much more than that). Perhaps you'll publish a book or write for magazines or create a popular blog that reaches readers all around the world. But even if none of that happens, you are still allowed to write.

#2: Give Yourself Time to Write

This might sound a bit obvious, but if you leave your writing till last in terms of your to-do list, it's likely to end up being done at the very end of the day ... or not at all.

If you're a night owl and that works for you, go for it! If, though, like me, you can barely string together a coherent sentence after 9pm, or if you lack the energy and motivation to do so after a busy day ... then you need to give yourself some time to write earlier in the day.

This might mean:

• Getting up 15 minutes early to write.
• Writing for half an hour in your lunch break.
• Writing straight after work.
• Writing as soon as you've got the kids into bed, rather than later in the evening.

You might not be able to fit loads of writing into your life straight away ... but try to find at least one opportunity this week to write. Everything else can wait 15 minutes.

#3: Give Yourself Something Exciting to Write

Once I had kids, my reading habits shifted. More often than not, I don't have a book on the go. (Teenage me would be horrified!) It can be hard to find the energy to start something new.

When I do get stuck into a new book, though, I race through it! Suddenly, I find that I have got time to read – it takes the place of a bit of mindless scrolling on social media or I pick up a book in the evening instead of turning on the TV.

I think writing can be very much like this. If you're plugging away at a project that doesn't interest you, it's not surprising that writing isn't much of a priority for you. And if you've taken a long break from a project that you do love, it can be hard to get up the momentum again.

Pick something you really WANT to write. If you don't feel quite "into" it right now, set aside 30 minutes some time over the weekend, and make a start anyway. You might just find yourself getting wrapped up in it all over again.

What could you do, today, to give writing a bigger place in your life?

Happy writing,

Ali

P.S. If you missed last week's blog post, you can find it here:

How to Write When ... You're Tired