[Aliventures newsletter] The Six Types of People Who Can Help You Achieve Your Writing Goals
Published: Mon, 11/20/23
Hello!
This is the point in the year when I'm looking back at the goals I set in January and wondering just where the past 10.5 months have gone.
Perhaps you've had a fantastic 2023 for writing (if so, hurrah, I'm celebrating you!) ... but maybe you've not made the progress you'd hoped for.
In my own writing life,
particularly when it comes to my fiction, the support of other people has been hugely important in keeping me going. Whether it's the direct support of my wonderful editor, the emotional support of writing friends, or the practical support of my husband, it all makes a big difference.
You may not have many
other writers in your life, and that's okay. There are lots of other people who can help you achieve your goals. And that's what we're going to take a look at today.
The Six Types of People Who Can Help You Achieve Your Writing Goals
Whatever your writing goals are, you'll get there faster with support. It can be tough to know where to turn, though ... and that's why I put together this list to help you think through the people in your life (or people you might be able to find) who
can help you on your writing journey.
Note: You don't need every type of person on this list. Even if you just have one or two people supporting you, that can make a big difference.
Adults You Live With
If you live with any other adults (or perhaps even helpful teenagers!) then they can help you in practical ways. That might be something as simple as providing the space and
quiet for you to write. If you have kids or dependents, other adults can also help out by providing care for them to give you time to write.
Fellow Writers
Other writers are a fantastic source of both emotional support and direct writing-related support. They can cheer you on and encourage you, but they can also help out with all sorts of things like coming up with a title, finding the right markets to submit to, or knowing what freelance rates to charge.
Beta Readers
Beta readers are (usually) non-professionals who read your work and give you feedback. They might be keen readers of your genre, or they could be fellow writers (in which case you might be swapping manuscripts or parts of a
work-in-progress for mutual feedback).
Writing Mentors
At some stage in your writing journey, you'll likely
have some kind of mentor. This may well be someone you pay, like a writing coach or an editor. They'll likely provide more "big picture" support than beta readers (e.g. advising on the publishing process).
Supportive Friends
Hopefully, you have friends and/or family members who love you and support you ... even if they aren't writers themselves. They might help with practical things like childcare, or they may help simply by being there, taking an interest, and perhaps sharing their own goals and progress.
Non-Fiction Authors or Speakers
Even if you don't have a personal writing mentor, you can get some of the same benefits through the blogs, books, podcasts, etc of non-fiction authors or speakers.
They might write about writing itself (like I do on Aliventures) or they might cover something else, like goal setting or time management, that's helpful to you.
Got any of these people in your life already? Is there a way you could
reach out for help and support? Even just grabbing a coffee with a kind and encouraging friend could help boost your spirits and spur you on towards your goal.
Spotlight On: Seven Ways to Get Other People to Respect Your
Writing Time
Sometimes, it might feel like not only is there no one to help you, there are people in your life who are actively getting in the way of your writing goals.
If that's the case for you, you have my sympathies and my sincere wishes that the people around you shape up! In the meantime, you
may need to find ways to defend your writing time. Here are some practical things to try: