[Aliventures newsletter] Stop telling yourself: "I could never do that" (Here's why)

Published: Thu, 03/31/16

 
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Hello!
How's your writing going? I'm still wrestling with the first draft / plot of my current novel in progress: I'm determined to make headway!

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I really enjoyed digging into the survey results, especially all the great questions and topic suggestions that came in. If you'd like to find out a bit more about other Aliventures' readers writing habits, check out this week's blog post:

 
Stop Telling Yourself: "I Could Never Do That" (Here's Why)
Have you ever looked at someone – perhaps another writer, perhaps someone a bit (or a lot) further along than you – and thought, "I could never do that"?

"I could never be that disciplined with my writing..."

"I could never write for Copyblogger..." (or any blog / magazine / newspaper you admire).

"I could never stand up and read from my novel in front of an audience..."

"I could never be that active on social media..."

Stop.

Because any time you think "I could never," it's not true.

You might not be able to do it right now. (Sure, you might not be ready to pitch the Guardian next week, but how about next year?)

You might not actually want to do it. (Sure, maybe some of the writers you admire are super-active on social media, but at the expense of other opportunities.)

Or, you might find there's really nothing stopping you.

I'm not suggesting you have to tackle something you feel completely unready for. But don't imagine that other writers are somehow a different species from you.

Well-known, well-paid writers get scared too. They struggle with the work; they struggle with self-doubt. Like this:

"I could never be that disciplined with my writing..."

That author you're thinking about might fight a daily battle with procrastination in order to get those words written. They might have spent years gradually becoming more disciplined.

"I could never write for Copyblogger..."

When I wrote my first guest post for Copyblogger, it took me a full week to pluck up the courage to actually submit it. (Spoiler: it was accepted.) There's a good chance that most of the other writers for Copyblogger – or any blog or publication you admire – feel just the same.

"I could never stand up and read from my novel in front of an audience..."

The first time I wrote and read the prayers in my college chapel in front of an audience, I was shaking at the knees (and it was an audience of six people, including me). Public speaking is scary, and reading something you've written is more so, but you can practice, get training, and gradually get more used to it.

"I could never be that active on social media..."

Maybe not as active as some writers are (and that might be a good thing!) But you could spend a few minutes each day catching up with other writers or sharing a great link to a useful resource you've found. 

Whatever you're telling yourself "I could never..." about, stop.

If it's something you'd like to do, imagine that someone offered you £10,000 to do it.

You'd find a way, right? 

What would be your first step? That's where you can begin, right now.
 
Q&A: What if my book is lousy?
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This question from the Aliventure survey particularly struck a chord with me: "What if my book is lousy?"

Note: I think this particular person was asking about novels, but a lot of the below applies to non-fiction books too.

Well ... what if it is?

I don't want to be facetious here; this is a very real worry, the kind that pops up when you sit down to write, the kind that stalls you when you're thinking about writing, the kind that keeps you awake in the middle of the night.

But let's face it. Some books, including some published books, are lousy. They have paper-thin characters or embarrassingly bad dialogue or typos all over the place.

If you've ever picked up a novel (or a non-fiction book), read the first couple of pages, and immediately decided it's no good ... you've found a lousy book.

So what if yours is lousy?

Well:

You could get a second opinion. It's really hard to judge the merits of your own work. Maybe it's not as bad as you think.

You could rewrite it. A first draft can be (and almost inevitably will be) a mess. That's where rewriting comes in.

You could pay an editor to help you bash it into shape. I do this with my novels, and while I don't think they're exactly lousy before the trip to my editor, they come back vastly improved.

You could decide that this novel was a dry-run, and shelve it. Don't consider it wasted effort: you learnt a lot in writing it. Before I published Lycopolis, I wrote three other novels over a period of eight years.

Of course, I hope your book won't be lousy. Frankly, the fact you're considering it means that you have a fair bit more self-awareness than the types of writers who produce crappy books.

But even if your book isn't quite all you hoped it would be (and reality never quite matches up to the perfect idea in your head), if you keep plugging away, you'll finish it.

You can revise it, make it the best book you can, and then you get to make the call on whether to put it out there into the world – via self-publishing or by submitting it to agents.

And before I finish: one person's "lousy" is another person's "great read". Some huge bestsellers come in for a ton of flack related to their writing style (The Da Vinci Code and Fifty Shades of Grey come to mind). Hundreds of thousands of readers enjoyed them, though.

Figure out what matters to you  a clever plot? Memorable characters? Snappy dialogue?  and concentrate on that in your own book.

Writing is a skill. You can get better at it, by continuing to write, and by deliberately working on the areas where you want to improve. 

Got a question about writing? Just reply to this email, and I'll be happy to answer it in a future newsletter.
 
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Next week, I'll be discussing whether the time of day you write matters.

Till then, happy writing,

Ali

P.S. Don't forget to check out the blog at www.aliventures.com, especially this week's post, The Aliventures Survey Results (Spring 2016).

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