[Aliventures newsletter] How to stop re-reading your work and get on with writing; quick survey for writers with kids

Published: Thu, 08/04/16

 
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Hello!
Here at Aliventures headquarters, it's been a busy week of children, playgrounds, batch cooking ... and of course binge-reading Harry Potter and the Cursed Child (which I would've loved to see on stage, but it just wasn't going to be practical).

Whatever you're up to, I hope you're having a great summer – and fitting in a bit of writing too. Big thanks to all the writers-with-kids who filled in my survey from last week; if you missed that, just scroll down this newsletter for the details and link.

This week's post on the Aliventures blog is a pretty epic one. I published the first version several years ago, and I updated it every couple of years with new links and details. Here it is: How I Make a Living as an Online Writer (and How You Could Too) 

There's also an printable workbook version of this post, which you can download from the newsletter-readers-only library:


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How to Stop Re-Reading Your Work ... and Get On With the Writing
Shadab wrote, "I often am caught up with reading my writing over and over again. Reviewing is important, but I’m embarrassed to admit it, reading and rereading for the sake of self-glorification wastes my time. Can you suggest something?"

I'm easily distracted by pretty much anything to read – which includes my own writing! – so I can definitely see where you're coming from here, Shadab.

It's often tempting to read over past work, whether it's yesterday's or something from years ago. Thoughts like this might crop up:
  • Ooh, I'm enjoying reading this – I'll just review the whole manuscript and then I'll be ready to write.
  • Wow, I don't even remember writing that bit. Actually, that's not too bad. In fact – it's pretty good.
  • Yikes. Ugh. That's ... awful. Cringe-worthy. How did I ever imagine I could write?

And when you're caught up in entertaining yourself, patting yourself on the back, or wanting to crawl under a rock and hide ... you're not getting on with any more writing.

(It's particularly tough if you're cringing at your past work – and, likely, forgetting that all first drafts are distinctly rough around the edges.)

So how do you get past this?

These work for me, and you might find they help you too.

#1: Set Limits on Your Reading

Perhaps you'll review the whole manuscript after the first draft is complete ... and not before. Maybe you'll go over previous work for the first 10 or 15 minutes of a writing session ... but then you're moving on. Set sensible limits, and practice sticking to them.

#2: Separate Reading and Writing Time

Reviewing your writing is a type of editing (even if it's the type that ends with a "well, that's pretty darn good!" verdict). You might decide that you'll read over your writing in the evenings, or that you'll read on your tablet rather than on your computer screen. This can help you stay more focused when you're supposed to be writing, not reviewing.

#3: Set Specific Goals With Your Writing

It's hard to make consistent progress if you don't have any goals or deadlines (though you do need to make them realistic ones). For instance, if you're working on a novel, you might aim to write an average of 500 words per day. That's not loads (it takes me about half an hour) – but it's enough to net you a full first draft in five months.

I hope this helps, Shadab – and I hope it helps anyone else struggling with the same problem.

If you've got a question or topic you'd like me to tackle in the Aliventures newsletter, just reply to this email and let me know about it.
 
(Reminder) Calling Writers with Kids...
If you're a writer with children (of any age, including in utero) ... read on!

Since I had Kitty, three and a half years ago, I've realised that juggling writing around parenting (or vice versa!) is a huge challenge ... and from some of the blog posts I've written on this, I know I'm definitely not the only one.

I'd love to create some resources aimed specifically at parent-writers (or writer-parents, depending which hat you prefer to put on first). 

If you have kids -- or if you've got a child on the way -- and you're a writer or would-be writer, I'd be super-grateful if you could take this short, simple survey:


Note: if you include your email address at the end of the survey, you'll get some free resources in due course. :-) If you'd prefer to remain anonymous, that's fine too.
 
In next week's newsletter, I'll be talking about getting back on track with your writing when life gets in the way.

Till then, happy writing,

Ali

P.S. As always, don't forget to check out the latest post on the Aliventures blog: How I Make a Living as an Online Writer (and How You Could Too)
 
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