#1: Give Yourself Permission to Write
It can be difficult to allow yourself to write. Maybe you're under pressure trying to make ends meet and take care of young children, due to Covid-19. Maybe you're worried that you're wasting time: you'll never make it as a writer. Or you feel like you've left it too late already. Or you're just not good enough.
Frankly, even if all of that was true – even if you were doomed to never make a penny from your writing, even if you were objectively awful – that's no reason not to write!
It's okay to write simply because you enjoy writing and feel better for having done it. That's enough of a reason.
Of course, there's a good chance that writing will mean even more to you than that (and potentially become much more than that). Perhaps you'll publish a book or write for magazines or create a popular blog that reaches readers all around the world. But even if none of that happens, you are still allowed to write.
#2: Give Yourself Time to Write
This might sound a bit obvious, but if you leave your writing till last in terms of your to-do list, it's likely to end up being done at the very end of the day ... or not at all.
If you're a night owl and that works for you, go for it! If, though, like me, you can barely string together a coherent sentence after 9pm, or if you lack the energy and motivation to do so after a busy day ... then find some writing time earlier in the day.
This might mean:
- Getting up 15 - 30 minutes early to write.
- Writing straight after your workday.
- Using weekend mornings to write.
You might not be able to fit loads of writing into your life straight away ... but try to find at least one opportunity this week to write. Everything else can wait 15 minutes.
#3: Give Yourself Something Exciting to Write
Since having kids, my reading habits have shifted. A lot of the time, I don't have a book on the go. (Teenage me would be horrified!) I often feel too busy or too tired to start on something new.
When I do get stuck into a new book, though, I race through it! Suddenly, I find that I have got time to read – it takes the place of a bit of mindless internet-surfing.
I think writing can be very much like this. If you're plugging away at a project that doesn't interest you, it's not surprising that writing isn't much of a priority for you. And if you've taken a long break from a project that you do love, it can be hard to get up the momentum again.
Pick something you really WANT to write. If you don't feel quite "into" it right now, set aside 30 minutes some time over the weekend, and make a start anyway. You might just find yourself getting wrapped up in it all over again.
What could you do, today, to give writing a bigger place in your life?
